Romantic Date Ideas

Romantic date ideas: 20 steps to insure a Happy Valentines Day or Anniversary ideas : So as a women, wife and mother I sometimes think my perfect valentine ideas would be having a nice dinner, movie, and a quiet night. I always want to feel desired and sexy to my man. I know my husband thinks of me that way. Being a plus size women, I don’t want to always be over the top in lingerie department. I know my husband sees me as beautiful and would love the super slutty outfits but I don’t always want to go there for myself. Check out the bottom of my post for some of my top picks for Plus Size Lingerie for women over 40.

A women’s level of comforts will directly reflect her sexual performance.. it is like when the experts say if her feet are cold let her wear socks. Comfort does matter and there is a mind body connection with women. Also please note men if you want to have a “Happy” Valentines please consider doing a few simple steps to insure a great day before.

Start 7-days to 24 hours before Valentines day, because if you piss a women off anywhere near having a romantic night, I guarantee she is not going to have fun. Since Valentines day is on a Saturday this year you really have the time to do this right!!

Romantic date ideas: 20 steps to insure a Happy Valentines Day or Anniversary

Romantic Date Ideas

Plan ahead and pay attention to her que’s
Decide where the kids are going on Valentines day don’t leave it to your wife- ask for the babysitters number and you call
Your choose you decide where to go to dinner but be sure to take her to a place She Prefers… IE a sports bar is so probably not on her list- Take charge if this is – Reservations must be made several days before- Also some women say they hate prefix menus.. But do not make her cook if she cooks all the time.
If you cook you do all the prep, all the cooking, and clean as you go DO NOT leave a mess or make a Mess- (if you cant not make a mess consider Take Out to her favorite place
With in 48-24 hours of be sure to pick up your stuff, that means clothes, paperwork, yea basically everything.. get rid of the clutter clean space will make her feel more relaxed
Do Carry, and put away laundry and dishes- Nothing is sexier than a many removes and does laundry and dishes. Do this without asking, do not expect or accept any praise of acknowledgement for this task. I repeat nothing gets in a women’s panties faster than a man that does chores without asking.
Let her sleep, deal with the kids
Take the kids prior to valentines day to get a gift for MOM- do not allow them to wake her up to give it to her
The morning and day after valentines bring her coffee in bed.. the way she likes it and if you don’t know how she likes it take time to learn.
Make the beds when she gets up (see clean up after yourself above)
When you take a show be conscious of where you leave you wet towel.. hang it up or put in the laundry- do not leave the wet towel on her side of the bed.(see clean up after yourself above)
Flowers most women like flowers.. plan a head or be thoughtful.. What is her favorite flower, it might not be roses? Also if you never sent her flowers at work.. Do so.. (this would be on Friday delivery) there is noting like showing off that your man sent you flowers.. (that means send them a head of time) ( see planning)
Always tell her she is beautiful and desired. You should already be telling your wife daily: How hot she is, or how you could take her right now.. but also be sure the kids hear that you think she is beautiful, build your wife up always. Thank her for all she does.
Open car doors.. this is a given you should do it more than you think
Don’t forget long kisses in a car, take her back to when you 1st met (dont cop a feel) and wisper in her ear
Do something or have something that reminds you of your past together. That first donuts or share a memory of your past that she loves like the 1st time you knew you loved her. Leave her a love note.
If you buy her lingerie, let her have the option not to wear it.. remember her comfort level insures her performance
Think of her in bed and ask her what she wants, really ask her she might surprise you.
In bed go slow and take your time, go old school and start with a massage.
Also tell her she is amazing and you love her! before, after and during

Here is the thing, the idea of the actual date is not as important as the thought you put into her prior, during and after. But candy, flowers, candles and a romantic setting (over looking a bridge,picnic, or skyline cant hurt)

Have a great night and let me know how it works out.